The other day we had planned to see the Sun Temple in Konark but since the bus time we had been given for the bus was wrong (as usual), we ended up waiting for an hour at the local bus station in Puri. Instead of hanging around, dealing with the usual bombardment of “Where you from?”, we went for a walk to the nearest little temple.
As soon as we got there we were told that we basically had no chance of getting in because we weren’t Hindu. Oh well, doesn’t really matter, because we had a much better time watching the monkeys play on the trees outside. Cheeky little fellows were having a great time swinging around and hitting each other as often as possible.
After about ten minutes or so of watching the little critters we decided to leave. As we approached the gate on the way out, I (Scott) saw a young child girl sitting near the gate with a little sheet in front of her with a few coins on it. She was obviously begging. I thought this was a little strange because children normally beg around the streets, pulling your sleeve and bouncing around you desperately trying to seek your attention, but this one wasn’t. She was just sitting there quietly.
As we got closer to her I locked eyes with her for a moment. I smiled and tilted my head to the left, which is a common Indian greeting/acknowledgement. She smiled back and tilted her head too, but something wasn’t right. Her eyes were too wise and the way she moved was too subtle and patient. When you greet an Indian child (especially as a white man) they tend to go crazy with excitement, but she hardly moved.
It wasn’t until I had passed her that I realised she wasn’t a child at all. The memory of the small glance I had of her contained wrinkles but she couldn’t have had wrinkles. She couldn’t have been older than 4 or 5. But I had been wrong, she hadn’t been a child. She was an adult, who was no taller than 60cm.
Once we were outside I told Shell about her (she hadn’t noticed). It sounds strange but if you hadn’t looked at her directly from a distance you would never suspect she wasn’t a child. We went back, gave her some money, shook her hand and asked for a photo. She directed us to outside the gate.
As I knelt down on one knee, I felt a little intrusive and was unsure what to do with myself, but she stuck out her hand for me to shake it. We both smiled and – snap, the picture was taken. Shell and I both repeatedly said “Daniabad”, the local word for thank you. She wiggled her head, smiled and looked at us one last time with those eyes, which gleamed of an infinite patience that only someone who is in her position and has accepted her place in life, can obtain, then she walked back into the temple grounds.
Shell and I both left the temple with mixed emotions. We weren’t sure how we felt about the encounter, although it did remind us that there are some amazing people in this world. People who find happiness and inner peace even in the hardest circumstances. They remind you that life is always worth living, no matter how small you may feel :) In the end, we were quite glad we had to wait for the bus!